There’s this story we keep telling about the job market: it’s tough out there. Fine. I can live with that. And I’m saying this as someone currently in it — reorienting on the way to my next role. I’m having conversations, doing calls, sending applications, waiting, looking closely at what’s out there. And there’s this slightly surreal experience of trying to meet a system where it is, without letting it define me.
But first, let me be clear: I get it. Fewer openings, more applicants, smart people competing for the same roles — that’s real. Labor markets have always been cyclical, and economists have data for that. What doesn’t make sense is the vibe.
Scrolling through my feeds lately feels less like »people looking for work« and more like watching a weird strategy game. Everyone is min-maxing their character build. And I’m not exempt — I catch myself doing it, too. You start out thinking you’ll just be honest and clear, and two weeks later you’re squinting at job ads like they’re riddles, asking yourself which exact synonyms might survive the first automated filter.
And that filter isn’t a metaphor. A lot of companies these days use an ATS — an applicant tracking system — that parses applications, pulls structured data out of your documents, and can reduce a messy human story into a score, a rank, a shortlist.
What we’re all doing here reminds me of something oddly specific from another corner of my life. I’ve been playing pen-and-paper role-playing games for something like 35 years, and there’s a word for a certain kind of player: the power-gamer. Not the person who builds a character with a vibe, or a backstory, or a few interesting flaws — but the one who optimizes so hard the character turns into a caricature. Technically brilliant. Mechanically unstoppable. Socially … kind of ridiculous. The party needs a living person and gets handed a spreadsheet in a cloak. Sure, that character can do everything. But exactly: that’s the problem. It stops being a character and becomes a system exploit wearing pants. That’s how a lot of job searching feels right now.
How Do I Outsmart the Filters?
Companies use ATS systems, so people optimize their CVs for whatever the system might reward. And if you keep going, you end up with this oddly maxed-out version of yourself that reads great on paper and feels vaguely alien when you look at it too long.
Recruiters on social media share »inside tips« about interviews, so candidates start training for the meta-game instead of the conversation. Not the job, not the craft — the choreography. If they offer you something to drink, take it calmly (don’t make it a thing). If they ask, »Why shouldn’t we hire you?«, don’t admit a real weakness — frame a »development area« that sounds safe, contained, already half solved. If they ask whether you have questions, you’re apparently not supposed to think of your own in the moment. You’re supposed to pick from one of the many circulating lists of »great questions«, like you’re selecting dialogue options in a 90s adventure video game. Suddenly we’re all Guybrush Threepwood.
Cover letters start sounding like they were written by the same committee. LinkedIn posts read like corporate fan fiction. And somewhere in between all that polishing, something human quietly disappears.
It reminds me of the arms race between anti-doping agencies and athletes. Test methods improve, so doping gets smarter. Controls get tighter, workarounds get sneakier. Both sides invest more and more energy — not into performance or health, but into beating the system. That’s exactly what this whole process feels like sometimes. Not »How do I find a place where I can do good work?« But »How do I outsmart the filters?«
Psychology has a few names for this. One is impression management — the (very normal) human tendency to present ourselves strategically when something is at stake. We all do it in interviews. That’s not new. The weird part is how quickly it turns into a full-blown performance when the stakes rise and the evaluation feels opaque — algorithms, automated screening, ghosting. If you don’t know what’s actually being judged, you optimize everything you can control: the wording, the format, the story arc, the smile.
Hiring is Supposed to Be About Something Deeply Human: Trust

There’s also a concept from economics that fits almost too well: Goodhart’s Law. When a measure becomes a target, it stops being a good measure. If »keyword match rate« becomes the goal, CVs turn into keyword soup. If »culture fit answers« becomes the goal, interviews turn into rehearsed scripts. If »engagement on LinkedIn« becomes the goal, authenticity quietly dies. The signal gets gamed. And once everyone games the signal, it stops signaling anything.
Which is kind of tragic, because hiring is supposed to be about something deeply human: trust. Can we work together? Do we think in compatible ways? Will we enjoy solving problems side by side? None of that survives well inside an optimization contest. Instead, both sides burn too much energy on theater.
Companies add tools to reduce uncertainty. Candidates add tactics to beat the tools. More tools. More tactics. Less truth. It’s perfectly rational behavior on both sides. And collectively … absurd.
The irony is that the more we try to control the process, the less we actually learn about each other. The more layers we add, the more the whole thing starts selecting for people who are good at selection — like rewarding the player who’s best at exploiting the rules of character creation, not the one who’ll make the table better for everyone.
The Process Seems Designed to Reward Performance Over Truth
And maybe that’s my real frustration with this transition period: I don’t mind putting in effort. I don’t mind being evaluated. I don’t even mind rejection. ’Cause at least rejection is information. What I mind is how often the process seems designed to reward performance over truth. To turn actual people into »profiles«, and actual work into »signals«, until you’re basically auditioning for an algorithm and hoping a human shows up eventually.
So yeah, I’ll keep playing the game to some extent. I’m not naive. I’ll tailor the CV. I’ll prep for interviews. I’ll do the dance. But I’m also trying, deliberately, not to disappear inside it. To be specific instead of flawless. To sound like a person instead of a template. To choose clarity over optimization — even if it costs me some points in the invisible scoring system.
Because at the end of the day I’m not looking to »win« recruiting. I’m looking for a place where I can do good work with real people, on real problems, on a random Tuesday morning — without all of us having to pretend we’re characters in a gamified hiring simulator.
